Introducing sex toys in any relationship
In more recent times, women have gained more sexual independence and freedom; they have become more open to introducing sex toys and props for bedroom pleasures to bring back the passion and to experiment with their partner.
Using sex toys in your private rooms during those intimate moments is nothing new, but before you rush out to buy the blindfolds and sex toys like vibrators, you need to discuss with your partner with an open mind, the possibility of bringing toys into the bedroom. You also need to consider what kinds of sex toys you'd like to bring to your bedroom pleasures. Introducing toys can be a very sensitive subject for couples to discuss so being open about what you would enjoy and which toy you'd like to introduce needs to be discussed and both of you need to be comfortable with the arrangement.
Here are three important ways to bring sex toys into a relationship.
Start with Honest Communication
You need to be mindful of how to start a conversation about sex toys. Choose a time when you are both feeling comfortable and relaxed. You can start by asking your partner an open-ended question about how they feel about sex toys. Then, let your partner know what your views are. In some cases men may see it as a threat, but always let him know it’s going to spice up the sex adventures for the both of you.
Be careful with the type of sex toy you introduce
While you introduce sex toys it has to be a sex toy which is very basic, gentle, and easy. In other words your foundation sex toy shouldn't be some strange kind of sex toys. You'll easily scare off your partner so it’s better you start with the basic sex toys which you both find comfortable with. Then as time goes on when you both have had enough of the basic sex toys you can now explore for more luxury sex toys which will improve the intimacy in the relationship.
Do not get addicted
That is, don't turn a sex toy into an Addiction. Use it only to enhance the relationship, don’t always look at it like you can’t do without it during sex.
I believe with what you have read you should be able to take a bold step in introducing sex toys to your partner.